Had a female student approach me in the coridoor tonight.

Jamieson, do you have some time ? I have some questions.

Sure, I got a no-show for class.  Got a free hour of smoking and drinking tea.What is up ?

An almost totally unbelievable scenario in China. She leads me far away from the main corridoor to the end, most private classroom. ALERT.

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me.

J looks around nervously. Suspicion Hyper ALERT. IT IS A PROPRIETY TEST OF THE LAOWAI ! Orchestrated by Management. When walking on eggs, do not hop.

So, what would you like to ask ?

How can I stop having baby ?

You know you are asking me questions that as a Teacher in a private teaching organisation in China - it is dangerous for me to answer your questions here. (Very slow English, word by word)

Yes, but you are very kind and know so much......

(Oh, Ok, I am on the way out anyway)

"Having intimate relations with a boy - you know what that means, right ? Depends on how much you want it. If you want to keep yourself until marriage, that is your choice. Just say NO and walk away for a while, do not fall for emotional blackmail." Look for these words in your dictionary. You will understand.

If he is really sincere and you do not want to sleep together before marriage, then he must wait, and honour you as the Goddess that you are.

I promised my wife that if we were to lay together, even once, that I guaranteed I would be her serving and faithful husband.

 If you want to sleep with your boyfriend... then.... that is your choice.

The best way to stop having a baby is if your boyfriend uses a condom. It protects you and him from nasty diseases.

In my experience, going to a doctor and getting a prescription (let us look that word up)

Triphasil® 0.05 mg/day , Levonorgestrel (r) 0.05 /mg/day  , Tri-Levlen® 0.05 mg/day, or Trivora® 0.05 mg/day.

Triphasil® is the better choice for you as a young lady. You won't vomit. with Triphasil®.  Write them down.

They are very, very light birth control pills, might give you a little bit of acne (pimples) on your forehead. They will not last 5 days.

Take one pill every day, on time, same time every day, perhaps when you wake up. DO NOT miss one.

Do not sleep with him UNLESS you have been eating the pill for at least 1 month.

Just say NO, and explain why.

I know the acute lack of education in these areas, and I know the unfortunate, painful and scornful outcomes, I have seen the results even in University trained young ladies. Several times.

I am surprised that you whispered to me your confession in the classroom.

I just tell you what I know, and give you information - as much as I know: some not from my head, some just trade names.


Yes, I am sorry that Dr. Doug has gone to Beijing, but I can only offer you what I know.

Do you promise not to talk about this ? To anyone  at the spider ?

Why did you not talk about this with Mum ?

I am sorry if I lectured you and told you uncomfortable, hurtful things.

Better than the pain and embarrassment of an abortion. Twenty cents of prevention is better than 200 bucks of an abortion.

I may tell you more things about things. But I will not, unless you are comfortable about asking me.

Good Luck and Good Night,

Cheers

Jamieson.